Well, I heard many rumours about the typical third
child. It seemed to be one of two
things. The third baby is easy
breezy...they go with the flow-have ample entertainment from older siblings-and
tend to be care and fuss free. The other
50% of people I talked to shared the opposite: that they were the hardest
fussiest baby by far!
Before Robyn arrived, I crossed my fingers and braced myself
for latter, while hoping for the former. When Robyn arrived, she seemed quiet and happy,
and I remember the nurses commenting to each other, “wow, this one is a GOOD
sleeper.” Robyn did her best trying to
sleep through her blood work and first bath.
Well, I didn’t take this too much to heart because the first 5 or 6
weeks of a newborns life can be misleading.
The first 3 are spent mostly sleeping, and then the next few typically mark
a fussy peak. My favorite sleep book
explains this with science. A newborn
does not start producing their own sleep hormones until around 6 weeks old. At first, they are going off mommy’s from the
placenta and so they have a ton and that is why they sleep a TON! This hormone also has a relaxing effect on
the gut- so gassiness and bms are not as much of a problem. But as
the hormone wears off, and before their body is producing it’s own ...they have
a harder time sleeping, and a tighter more irritable belly. I have noticed this
fussy peak with both Jesse and Janna. I
also, noticed it with Robyn- but it was pretty mild.
Anyways, I’ve been waiting for the 8 week mark until I
decide if I have an easy baby or not- and it’s come and gone- and my girl is
still an angel! She is happy when she is awake, and content to sit in her sling
chair watching all the action happen around her. She loves when people coo at her and bursts
into shy little smiles at the sound of a high voice. She is really focused, and will just stare people down as they talk. It's like she is looking into your soul. She is extremely patient with Jesse and Janna
who are in her face and space a ton.
Janna even sat on her head once, and she cried for about 10 seconds,
then quickly forgave her. She nurses
well- but not nearly as much as Jesse did! Which is good for me, as it’d be difficult
with the 2 younger ones if she was a non-stop nurser. Robyn does have a grumpy spell right before
her night bed time- but it’s maybe 1
hour max....and it consists of little grunts and tiny wails here and
there. Bobbing around the living room or
rubbing her back soothes her in a cinch.
Mostly, I say she is an easy baby because her sleep is
amazing! I will let myself brag about
her- because I put in my time with Jesse and Janna having multiple wake ups at
this age and needing to be soothed so particularly to get back to sleep many
many many times, and so I feel like I deserve this one! LOL! Since about 4 weeks old Robyn has been doing
6-7 hours of sleep straight at night, followed usually by just one wake up
before the morning. She doesn’t even
usually cry when she wakes up, I just hear her gnawing on her fists and
smacking her lips from the next room over.
I go in and change her and feed her for just a quick 15 minutes, then
put her back down -wide awake- and she puts herself back to sleep without a
peep. It’s incredible! She also has started the typical sleep
routine of a 3 or 4 month old this week all on her own. One morning nap, one longer afternoon, and
one brief hour around supper. She has
consistently been ready for bed at 8pm, and then will sleep until 3pm or
later. It’s incredible! I think she just Loooooves to sleep. Like, when she is napping, if she wakes up
with gas or from a noise...she looks around...and then might grin, and go back
to sleep. I relate to that! It’s like
when you wake up at 4am thinking it’s 6 and you have to get up...but then
realize you have 2 more whole hours to sleep!
Anyways, I just have found myself with a bit of time this
afternoon, and wanted to blog something about my little lovely butterball. I realize my posts don’t usually mention a
ton about her, and it is because she is pretty good at going with the flow at
this point. Here is a picture of Jesse holding Robyn for me this morning. That’s all for now. Thanks for reading. I’m out!
So nice to hear about Robyn :)
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